non-verbal

Just to add to Jo-Ann's post a bit - Tom's actually temporarily lost his voice because of the treatment. As you can imagine, this is bittersweet for those of us who want to do all the talking anyway (meaning all the bossy girls in TJ's life). At any rate, email and cards are best for the time being. Tom has been amazed at the outpouring of good wishes and other support. We're trying to remember to post here reguarly, but if you're feeling like you want an update, feel free to be in touch with any of us via email as well.